If You're Single…
And you're feeling a little shaky about not having a relationship, “act as if” a great, juicy one is on its way. Today could be the day before you meet him. Act cherished, loved and adored and you'll learn a lot about what you are looking for in a relationship.
Don't compare yourself to anyone else this Valentine's Day. Look deeply into your own eyes and ask yourself what will make you happy. What is important for you to feel loved, desired and supported? Make a list. What are your “must haves” in a mate and what falls into the “would be nice” category?
Send yourself a valentine and say all the things you are longing for someone to praise and acknowledge you for. Write about what you are grateful for and expound on all of your positive qualities. Mail it early so it gets to you in time to enjoy and you'll be guaranteed to get at least one great valentine.
Save some time for relaxing, luxuriating and planning what you want to inspire in the man who is smart and lucky enough to love you.
Take care of yourself. Buy yourself some romantic music or new lingerie so you'll feel loved on Valentine's Day. What anyone else gives you is a bonus.
If You Have Partner…
Don't make Valentine's Day a “test” for your relationship. This is an opportunity for you to be gentle and tender (just what you both need). Remember, this is a holiday promoted by Hallmark to sell cards. You already know he cares for you.
Help him. Make Valentine's plans together. What romantic things can you both prepare so you'll feel loved and treasured? Have fun.
Don't shower him with too much stuff. Relax. Your man wants to please you. Be open to being pleased and receiving his attentions. We all want to be appreciated and thanked for our efforts. Do you thank him sincerely? Can you be pleased?
Remember, he loves you and wants to make you happy. Yes, he really wants you to be happy.
Let him show his love in his own ways. Smile. Breathe. Receive. Be gracious.
Tips for Everyone…
Allow yourself to be surprised and delighted about what finds its way to you. Enjoy the kindness and love of the day and let the hearts and flowers serve as reminders to be tender and expressive with yourself and your loved ones every day of the year.
