It is a very noble and romantic idea to think that love can carry on no matter what the distance is, and to assume that you can handle anything that comes your way. Countless people have tried to hold on to a long distance relationship with a lot of hope and vigor, only to find out that it can be terribly lonely and leave them wanting for much more. When you get to that point, you may realize that the long distance relationship needs to come to an end, but that can be hard to do. After all, if you still very much like the person and not the situation, it can leave you feeling like an emotional wreck to think about ending things.
What are some tips for ending a long distance relationship in a way that will leave you feeling okay about it?
Tip Number One – Sit down and really feel things out to make sure that this is the best decision to make.
You probably already have a pretty good feeling that the relationship needs to end, but before you go and make something final, you definitely want to really mull things over completely. Sometimes, people will take a look at the situation and realize that there are things that they can do to make things flow a little more smoothly. Plus, you will have the added benefit of knowing that you really did think things out all the way and that you are doing the right thing if you give yourself the time to think things over fully.
Tip Number Two – You need to have a long conversation with your partner.
This is especially true if you do care for them still and the situation is really the reason why you need to break up with them. You don’t want to hurt their feelings and their emotions, and you need to give yourself some real closure so that you don’t look back on things and feel badly about the way that they turned out. Make sure that you give yourself and your partner the time and attention to really have a long conversation as long as they are willing to do so.
Tip Number Three – You need to get yourself back out and socializing right after things end.
This is more for the fact that you will probably be feeling some very lonely moments right after ending the relationship and you may get the urge to call up your ex partner and get back together even though nothing has changed. To keep yourself from doing this, make a point of getting out and socializing right away so that you can kind of forget about what happened for a while and invite some fun into your life.
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