Business networking is much more than showing up at networking functions, shaking a lot of hands, and collecting a bunch of cards-networking is about being proactive.

Networking is the process of developing contacts and relationships to increase your business, enhance your knowledge, expand your sphere of influence, or serve the community. In its most basic form, “business networking” is leveraging your business and personal connections to bring you a regular supply of new business. The concept sounds awfully simple, doesn’t it? Don’t let that fool you, though. Because it involves relationship building, it can be a deceptively complex process.

Think about it. How many people do you know? How many of these people truly understand what you do? How many of these folks have directed prospects to you as referrals? And how many of those referrals have actually turned into business?
Business networking is much more than showing up at networking functions, shaking a
lot of hands, and collecting a bunch of cards.

For example, imagine two people entering an event, sizing it up, and drawing an imaginary line down the middle. They separate, each taking half the room. At the end of the event, they meet again to see who’s collected the most business cards.

Have you met these people? Sure, you have. We all have. What did they accomplish? They collected a lot of cards that will end up on a shelf, in a drawer, in the trash, or-worse yet-scanned into a computer so they can spam everyone they just met. Why? What does a business card represent? At this point, in reality, it’s a piece of paper, with ink and images on it. No relationship has been formed. This networking strategy, by itself, isn’t an effective use of time, money, or energy.

Some people get frustrated with networking because they seem to be making as much progress as a rear-wheel-drive truck on an icy hill: one foot forward, ten feet back-getting nowhere fast. Networking for business growth must be strategic and focused. Not everyone you meet can help move your business forward-but everything you do can be driven by the intention to grow your business. You have total control over who you meet, where you meet them, and how you develop and leverage relationships for mutual benefit. You have total control over whether you enter into the unique 29% of the population who are separated by six degrees (as I discussed in my book, The 29% Solution), whether you stay there, or whether you never get there at all.

Networking your business means you have to be proactive. The point of business networking-the core of what it really is-is doing something specific each week that is focused on networking for business growth. Make a plan, focus, and be consistent. When you understand exactly what business networking is and step up to the challenge, you will be introduced to avenues of opportunity that you may have otherwise never discovered, and you will be making an invaluable investment in the steady growth of your business.

About the Author:

Called the “Father of Modern Networking” by CNN, Dr. Ivan Misner is a New York Times bestselling author. He is the Founder and Chairman of BNI (, the world’s largest business networking organization. His latest book, The 29% Solution can be viewed at Dr. Misner is also the Senior Partner for the Referral Institute, an international referral training company ( He can be reached at