The routines for acquiring spiritual balance are different for each
individual. For some, spending weekends at the beach or up in the mountains,
where they can clear their mind and take in nature, helps them balance
themselves spiritually. For others, doing volunteer work brings peace of mind.

 
Perhaps devoting time to a favorite charity could help you step outside your own
drama, do something good for someone else, and help you acquire spiritual
balance. Learning how to be more grateful, and showing your gratitude often to
many people, can bring a centeredness and calmness to your being, which brings
about peace of mind and spirituality.
 
For me, my sense of spirituality has a direct relationship with the good I do in
the world. And when I say good, I'm not just referring to volunteerism. Although
there are many causes and charities that tug at my heartstrings, I'm never able
to devote the amount of time to those charities that I would like. I used to
think, Oh, I'll feed the hungry two weeks from Thursday, from five till seven.
Yeah, right. That rarely happened, and as long as my sense of purpose and
spirituality was linked to the number of hours I devoted to volunteerism, I
never felt spiritual.
 
Here's how I changed both my thinking and my actions: I realized that I can do
"volunteer work" all day, every day. What do I mean by that? Let me give you
some examples.
 
I'm not required to smile at every person I meet; I'm not paid to do that. So if
I choose to do it, it's on a volunteer basis and therefore I'm giving something
that I'm not required to give-and that makes me feel good about myself. I'm not
required to notice and hug the student in my school who's experiencing
loneliness or some type of struggle, so if I do hug that student, it's on a
volunteer basis. It's that simple.
 
As for raising money, I don't always have to wait for a charitable fundraising
event. As a business owner, I can offer the products and services of my business
to support, serve, and give back to people in my community on a daily basis. On
a typical day, if a hundred clients come in, perhaps two of them will receive
something extra, or they won't pay at all. I can volunteer to make those kinds
of decisions, so why not?
 
If you're not a business owner, that doesn't mean you can't use your place of
employment as a vehicle to make a difference in your community. Making a
difference isn't always about donating time or money to a cause. If you're a
waiter or waitress, your smiles, kind words, and calling total strangers
"darling" can make a difference and heal someone in need, whether you realize it
or not. I can count numerous times when a waitress was my "angel of mercy," so
to speak, on a particular day when I needed a little boost. If you're a grocery
bagger or checkout clerk, you have the opportunity every single day to tell
hundreds of people to have a good day, and to truly mean it.
 
Best-selling author and lecturer Marianne Williamson used to say that every
business is a front for a church, but I don't think she was referring to a place
of worship or a religion. What I translated that to mean for me is that every
business-whether it be a pizza parlor, an accounting firm, a hospital, or a
beauty salon-can be a place where both customers and employees feel accepted,
loved, cared for, and safe.
 
People in need are not just those who line up at a soup kitchen. There are
people all around you who suffer spiritually, mentally, emotionally, health
wise, financially, and in so many other ways. They could be people you work with
every day, and you just don't know it. They could be members of your own family,
your neighbors, or people in your religious congregation.
 
It's so worthwhile to note that the spiritual gifts you offer are not only for
the benefit of the receiver. You can be generous and giving out of your own
self-interests. Your own spirit and soul need continual nourishing, and you do
that by giving of yourself. As Shirley Chisholm, the first African American
woman elected to Congress, said, "Service is the rent you pay for room on this
earth."
 
Winn Claybaugh is the author of Be Nice (Or Else!), with foreword by CNN’s Larry
King. Winn is the founder of Paul Mitchell, The School and National Motivational
Expert for Paul Mitchell working with thousands of businesses, including
companies such as Vidal Sassoon, the Irvine Company, Entertainment Tonight,
Mattel, and others. Sign up for Winn's free motivational monthly newsletter and
read informative articles at www.beniceorelse.com/newsletter.

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